the problem with being single

The problem with being single and how to fix it

Posted: 16. August 2019 by Ramona

It was about two years ago and I was sitting on my green chair in my living room thinking about life. This question came up on the inside of me asking, “Are you willing to give it all up, the life you have created, your independence?” And boy oh boy was that a hard one to answer because I love being single. I love my independence, not having to ask anyone about anything and I love having time by myself.

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the journey so far

I made a cake for you

Posted: 2. August 2019

Well, I made you a virtual cake we can have with our virtual coffee 😊 but really I just want to celebrate the journey so far.

This blog is turning 1 year today and it has been the most incredible year. It has pushed me to be creative. It has pushed me to be more vulnerable, to share my life and to let go of the lies that tell me I am not good enough.

what you should do as a single

As a single, you should be found doing these three things

Posted: 12. July 2019

I do not know where you stand on the “single spectrum”. Maybe you just got out of a relationship and are newly single, maybe you are single and ready to mingle or maybe you are single and dating. The fact is you are not married and this single life is here to be enjoyed. Yet sometimes we get so caught up in life or in the idea of something or someone (hello… I am definitely guilty of that) that we forget that life happens right here and now and we only have this one life.
So click here to read about what you should do as a single.

taking care of yourself

But… what about me?

Posted: 29. March 2019

We live in a society where self-care has such a high priority. Fullfilling our needs and what we want has become the most important thing. But is self-care really just about us?

soul talk

Could this be poison for your soul?

Posted: 22. February 2019

Can we have a soul talk today? I just want to take today and raise a few questions. Is that ok with you?

Have you ever watched a romantic comedy, completely fallen in love with the male character and totally obsessed over the romance of that movie for weeks?
… me too.

not to hate Valentine's Day

How I stopped hating Valentine’s Day

Posted: 8. February 2019

The other day somebody commented on a picture that Valentine’s Day is just like any other day and I have had many a conversation with other people about how useless Valentine’s Day is. But I believe Valentine’s Day is just a great opportunity to stop in our track and be reminded of how important another person is for us.
I honestly used to cry a lot on V-Day and I used to hate it until I made a choice.

be the right person

Who are you?

Posted: 25. January 2019

You know how they say you have to be the right person before you find the right person. Well, but how do I know that I am the right person? How do I become the right person?

If you read my blog from last week, you know that my dating history is well… rocky and connected to a lot of heartache. Very obviously, I have not been the right person very many times.

unrequited love

My bad track record of liking boys

Posted: 18. January 2019

I am a romantic. Always have been. I don’t just mean romantic moments between two people but romantic moments, which just happen like biking in summer rain or standing on the shore feeling the salt and the wind on your skin. However, today I am not sharing with you all those wonderful romantic moments I have had with another person but I am sharing with you about unrequited love.

set the past on fire

Set your past on fire

Posted: 12. January 2019

Maybe you are going through a pretty tough season now where all your dreams, desires and passion seem to be burning away. But I believe you are being refined to become the absolute best version of yourself. Maybe it is time for you to set your past on fire.

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