Here we are one year later and Valentine’s Day is back. And so is the controversy. I have already heard “I hate V-Day” today and I have seen people fully commit to it. Let’s get encouraged today.
Read moreIt was about two years ago and I was sitting on my green chair in my living room thinking about life. This question came up on the inside of me asking, “Are you willing to give it all up, the life you have created, your independence?” And boy oh boy was that a hard one to answer because I love being single. I love my independence, not having to ask anyone about anything and I love having time by myself.
We live in a society where self-care has such a high priority. Fullfilling our needs and what we want has become the most important thing. But is self-care really just about us?
The other day somebody commented on a picture that Valentine’s Day is just like any other day and I have had many a conversation with other people about how useless Valentine’s Day is. But I believe Valentine’s Day is just a great opportunity to stop in our track and be reminded of how important another person is for us.
I honestly used to cry a lot on V-Day and I used to hate it until I made a choice.
You know how they say you have to be the right person before you find the right person. Well, but how do I know that I am the right person? How do I become the right person?
If you read my blog from last week, you know that my dating history is well… rocky and connected to a lot of heartache. Very obviously, I have not been the right person very many times.
Can you believe that it’s only a few more days until Christmas? The Christmas spirit (and I don’t mean the one from the movie) has moved in and there’s Christmas music playing, sugar and spice everywhere and almost all the gifts are wrapped. But maybe you find yourself kind of alone on Christmas this year and I want to encourage you today. I am also announcing the Christmas giveaway winner.